feminists, christians, corinthians

http://purelybeloved.wordpress.com/2013/08/06/ready-feminists-christians-corinthians/

OMG, this post is so good! Highly recommended!

The downside of the purity narrative is one of damaged goods, defeat, and despair. Also problematic are the solutions to denying desire recommended to celibate Christians, which carry tones of avoidance and repression that set up bad habits for marriage. Julia Duin suggests Christians “find something to care about more than sex,” exercise, and “figure out what stimulates wrong desires and avoid that.” The language of avoidance simultaneously makes sex more desirable—the ‘don’t think of a pink elephant’ of morality—and creates problematic expectations for sex in marriage after a lifetime of denying desire to be felt. “Wrong desires” aren’t instantly renamed “right” when a marriage license is signed.

http://purelybeloved.wordpress.com/2013/08/06/ready-feminists-christians-corinthians/

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