http://unchainedfaith.com/2013/10/14/the-opposite-of-christian/
selfish sex can occur within a marriage, too. Some people firmly believe they have the right to someone else’s body once they are married. Some pastors (ahem) even teach that. I would rather that two unmarried people have sex that honors one another’s autonomy than that two married people treat each other’s bodies with disrespect.
Image source and full article: http://unchainedfaith.com/2013/10/14/the-opposite-of-christian/
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I think a lot of people, or at least Americans, struggle with an “either/or” mindset. Either you are a Christian and live a pure, wholesome life, or you are depraved, sexually promiscuous and disrespectful. I fully agree with the statement above that two unmarried people having sex with respect for each other is “better” than two married people treating each other disrespectfully.
I would love to hear your thoughts on the original article.
I agree wholeheartedly with the whole article. Much of the church really needs to rethink the way it talks about sex in this day and age.
You can read my evolving thoughts on this matter here:
http://trybestpractices.wordpress.com/